Our bond has been broken. Our marriage has ended. We were married from 18 August 2007 until 1 August 2008. Less than one year! So short lived. Was it a failure? Yes. Should I fight for it any longer? No. Can I repair it? Definitely not. Am I giving up too easily? No. My marriage has come crashing down around my ears. I didn't even see it coming. I should have I know. I want to tell you about it. It's not about revenge. I'm not bitter and twisted about it. It's about coming to some sort of higher understanding about it. Maybe others can learn from what I've been through. Maybe I can learn from you.
08/23/2008
I'm so sorry.
My best friend and her husband are at least separating right now, and I believe it's actually due to something chemical within his workings. There's a family pattern to his doings and it doesn't feel as though he's really himself. Still, what he's doing is untenable and he's committed to it and no reasoning is working with him.
I'm just trying to help her stay on her feet, and I just cannot imagine how much it hurts.
Posted by: cookie monster | 08/31/2008 at 04:44 AM
Thank you so much for your comments.
I am sending all my best wishes to your best friend, that she not only finds her feet again, but rediscovers the joy in her step.
Posted by: Honestee | 08/31/2008 at 12:40 PM